If your not happy read this

Little things
mean a lot...when u think about it, what are the things that make u
feel the best or bring a smile to your face?..So often the simple
things we do in life bring the most joy. Look around you and take note
of the small accomplishments you made today, the nice thing u did for
someone else or all the things you take for granted that other people
would treasure.

It's easy to forget that happiness comes
through appreciating those things we do have, instead of focusing on
the things we don't or can't have..

Leave yesterday
behind..another thought on becoming happier, more positive person is to
live in the present. although the past may look brighter and happier,
it is just that, the past. It is time to move forward and enjoy
life----TODAY! So many of us wait for the perfect time or circumstance
to come about before we can enjoy life. You may think, "I'll be happy
when i can move out on my own or when i get married." Why put off
enjoying your life until tomorrow?

The perfect event or
situation seldom comes. If we are forever waiting for it, we end up
passing up opportunities for happiness. The more pessimistic type would
say that if things are going well, it is a sign that something bad is
going to happen. They often feel they don't really have a right to be
happy. This type of attitude can only keep you from enjoying life to
its fullest. There is nothing wrong being happy right now.

Don't
worry--be happy..some feel they are being responsible if they worry or
fret. I used to be this way. I tended to be worrier and even stayed
awake at night worrying about things.Worrying does absolutely nothing
and is useless indulgence.

We're instructed to cast our cares
upon God. GO TO HIM AND LET HIM WORRY ABOUT IT. What a great blessing
and relief! Once we do this, we don't have any reason to worry. We can
go forward and do something productive!

Help others enjoy
life...do things for other people..be sensitive to someone else's
needs. Take the focus OFF yourself. This helps u better appreciate the
good things going on in your life.

THOSE PEOPLE WHO TEND TO BE
THE HAPPIEST ARE THOSE WHO PUT OTHERS SECOND (God is first and u are
third..). One of the most rewarding experiences in life is helping
other people.

Life really is what u make of it. God fully intends u to live a full, abundant, happy life. It is our responsibility to do so.